Sunday, September 13, 2009

Reflections on my 21st bygone year

(Or "Musings on becoming legal")

On paper, it was maybe one of the worst years to date (eh, no that would be high school). I probably logged more hours in doctors offices and pharmacies in the first half than time spent out with friends. But in terms of learning, I couldn't have asked for more. Really. Sooo cliche: sue me.

Here's a little recap:

Experienced the highest recurring form of physical pain to date, popping ibuprofen and narcotics like candy, including racing up and down I-15 (Provo-SLC) with ice packs pressed to my freezer burnt face for injections and various therapies. A low point was popping some Percosset with intentions to snuggle the pain off in bed, then having my professor call to say I needed to get up to campus in the next half hour to have him sign an "Incomplete" form and submit it to the registrar's office.
I'm better, for the most part.

Learned that driving under the influence is just...not good.


-Oversaw Daily Universe packages for 2008 election coverage.

Learned Tina Fey is a goddess of satire.


-Went to Wyoming for Thanksgiving.

Learned that wide open spaces may in fact be really great...for the rush of galloping a horse.



- Attended a Buddhist wedding of my lovely hippie cousin and her dear Brazilian hubby in Santa Cruz...

(Isn't that the coolest picture of a bride?!)

and also a traditional Mormon wedding reception for another cousin in Orange County.



Two of my four best friends from Spain study abroad also got married.


Learned that love lives.

(Speaking of: men with psychotic wanderlust, intellectual arrogance, and/or cruel casanova complexes need not inquire within. -The Management)


-Spent the summer at the lake, (no malls, gyms, movie theaters or chain restaurants to be found within an hour radius)...ate lots of ice cream and enjoyed myself and my family (and Rayflyer).

(an awkward family photo (mom's hand on Katherine's stomach?) but it's all of us, nonetheless...)


Waterskiied, sky-skiied, and taught myself how to paddleboard.


Took an over two hour Hobie Cat excursion in gnarly waves and wind with my dad (including incident of capsize).
Relaxed. Read a lot of books and blogs. Wrote.

Learned that I can be happy outside of cities. At least in this interim period...


-Met Anderson Cooper, who inspired me to do international foreign correspondence work.

Went to Prague with three of my best friends, only to learn that I don't want to be a foreign correspondent: something about needing to take a crash surgical course in the event that you have to perform surgery on yourself was the kicker.


-Accepted that being a high-functioning individual also requires a high-vigilance and maintenance of well-being. Reconciled that I'm not done reconciling some things, but I'm definitely more myself than I've ever been. And really, I haven't been happier, more sure, determined, or more carefree.

Learned that irony is comical.


-Planned my next adventure ... to Neverland ...
where I will be thrown into "outdoors-y-ness" for the first time. We shall see if 15+ summers in the New England forestry have given me sufficient bug-squashing confidence.
(Last hurrah before the big-city life of my 4-year-old dreams! eee!)


OH, and I went auburn a couple days ago (the closest I will probably ever come to my redhead sisters)




It's true that really don't understand the lessons learned from trials and successes until you reflect upon them.
Thank you, readers, for indulging me.

22? Bring it.

12 footnotes:

Tara said...

you go girl! gahhh that's so cheesy but i'm so inspired by you!! happy 22nd, here's to hoping its much easier than the last year.

Aly said...

loved this! i am excited for your next adventures. love you!

RayRay said...

ahh! i love this. See! You CAN handle wide open spaces!! you're such a gem. really. cliche, perhaps... but true.

Courtney said...

That picture is cute! I love the hair color! Ready for 406 tomorrow?

lindseylovesZARA said...

can i just say that i laughed out loud alone in my living room for almost a min straight over the part about you being all hopped-up on percocet and having to drive up to campus to sign that incomplete paper?! also, i am saddened that nowhere in your 21st year was mentioned sleepover bearZ or a special someone (rindzo bearZ *eh* rindzo bearZ) intervening to save you from a sociopath... :( haha

defining amy said...

you're hair is so pretty!! i'm excited to hear all about your neverland adventure.

martha said...

ahh sweet alexandra. :) i loved this post. happy 22nd birthday, whenever that may be. i hope you have a cool party and make delicious food. and if you decide to go that route, i would love to help you. also, your hair is awesome, great color. and beautiful picture :D

Betty Ming Liu said...

happy 22 to you from me, too! and thanks for posting on my weigh-in. when you do that post on rachel, let me know and we'll let my readers know too. also appreciate the advice based on your experience over these last 21 years. i promise, i'll try to chuck that scale soon....

T.RIPPY said...

I love you and what you do and who you are and how you live your life! A very happy birthday to you--here's to a continuation of the fabulous years already under your belt!

I also love the attention you give my blog, it makes me happy that you read it and leave fun little comments. :)

Rica said...

You mean you're not joining me in my journey to cover the middle of nowhere?

My life will not be the same.

Here's to 22 being much better than 21. I don't think it can get worse.

Anonymous said...

Wow, you had a very busy year. I hope you had a very happy birthday!

courtneyelle said...

ali haha. that photo of your fam. your mom's hand placement is classy. hahahah i love it. need to see you soon